Tips for Talking to Your Teen Daughter About Shaving
When Should I Talk to My Daughter About Shaving?
There's no specific age to start talking to your daughter about shaving, but you can look for signs that it might be time to have the conversation. She might approach you about wanting to start shaving, or you might notice her body hair and think it's time to bring it up. Either way, make sure she knows you're there to talk with her about shaving whenever she's ready.
What Should I Do if My Daughter Asks About Shaving?
When puberty hits, your daughter might bring up shaving on her own. She could be curious, or maybe her friends are starting to shave. She might also feel self-conscious about her new body hair. It's important to remind your daughter that having body hair is completely normal and shaving is a personal choice. Let her know you're there to teach her if and when she wants to start shaving.
What Should I Do if My Daughter Doesn’t Ask About Shaving, but I Think She’s Ready?
If your daughter is getting more body hair but hasn't mentioned shaving, she might not be interested, or she could be nervous about bringing it up. In this case, starting the conversation yourself might make her feel more comfortable.
You can wait to see if she approaches you or brings up the topic subtly. Let her know that if she wants to learn how to shave, you're there to help. Reassure her that it's perfectly okay if she's not interested in shaving.
What Razor Should My Daughter Use When First Learning to Shave?
First, make sure your daughter knows that sharing razors isn't sanitary and can cause infections. She should have her own razor blade.
If your daughter needs help, you can assist her in choosing her own razor. She can select the handle, color, and number of blades she prefers.
Are There Any Safety Shaving Tips I Should Tell My Daughter?
Besides not sharing razors, it's important to replace disposable razor blades or blade cartridges when they become dull. She might worry about getting cut, but a sharp blade actually reduces the chances of nicks and skin irritation compared to a dull blade. If her blade pulls at her hair or feels rough, it's time to replace it. Generally, razor blades last for five to ten shaves, depending on how often she shaves.
Another safety tip is to always use shaving gel. It helps maintain moisture and allows the razor to glide more smoothly across the skin, reducing the chances of irritation. After shaving, applying a moisturizing lotion or oil (preferably alcohol-free) will help keep her skin hydrated.
How Do I Teach My Daughter How to Shave?
You can either show her how to shave or walk her through the process.
No matter where she's shaving—whether it's her armpits, legs, or bikini area—she should soak the area in warm water for at least three to five minutes in a bath or shower and then apply shaving gel. Make sure she knows the proper techniques for shaving each specific area to get the best results.